This is the time of year when leaves fall, skies darkens, and the world snuggles into the comforts of home. This naturally reflective season is a perfect time to settle into ourselves and appreciate who, where and what we are. My recent blogs focused on language and ways of thinking that help or hinder us in creating the life we desire. Baked into those posts is an assumption that changing our patterns of thought, belief and action are crucial to creating change and achieving

Goals can be a lot scarier than ghouls! Why? Because goals (and maybe ghouls, too) are often based on what others say we should be or do, and on definitions of success that aren’t ours. Means goals can be the scariest goals of all. Means goals focus on achieving one thing so you can do or be another. An obvious example is the common path of getting good grades so you can get into a good college, graduating from a good school so you can get a good job, find a great partner, ha